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Jody Starter
August 24, 1972 - October 16, 2015
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It is with great sadness we announce the passing of our beautiful daughter Jody Starter on October 16th. 2015.
Jody was born in Cowichan District hospital in Duncan. Her battle with Crohn’s Disease from the age of fifteen did hinder her dream of attending Scotsdale, Arizona to become an Interior Designer but her strength and determination did allow her to fulfill some of her dreams. Sharing an apartment with her sister in Victoria she attended Design School for a year and from there was employed at an Interior Design Company in Oak Bay, Victoria for a time. She also spent one year at Sprott Shaw College studying secretarial and accounting courses. Jody applied her accounting skills at Lynn’s Vitamin Gallery health food for four years after returning to her hometown of Duncan. From a young age, Jody’s love of animals was apparent. No effort was too great when it came to saving an injured animal found on the roadside. As a young woman she somehow talked us (parents) into allowing her to have a horse named Frosty Bar on our one acre of land. That was the beginning of a life filled with equine species. In later years her passion for adopting rescue animals resulted in many four legged beasties residing at her and Josh’s farm including dogs, cats, goats and blind cows. The eight horses that still reside at the farm were never cared for better. Jody learned the ancient craft of Farriering (equine hoof care) and also promoted Natural Horsemanship involving holistic care of her animals and did all she could to spread the word. She was an outdoors type of gal, enjoying annual camping trips to Rathtrevor Beach and Tofino with her family, and at least two trips a year for skiing on Mt. Washington.
Jody’s ultimate passion were her children…her love for her children knew no barriers, her love knew no law, no pity, it dared all things and crushed down remorselessly all that stood in its path.
She will be lovingly remembered by her husband of 18 years, Josh Crawford, her two beloved children Aydan Robert Crawford-Starter and Jordanna Grace Crawford-Starter, her sister Penny Hender (Rod) and her mother and father Lynn and Robert Starter, her in-laws Ann and Bob Crawford, her Great Aunt Etta Boyd, ‘auntie’ Joan (McKee) and her ‘auntie’ Fil and ‘uncle’ Paul (Wiltse), four loving nieces, Jody Hender, her name sake, Emma Hender, Danna Manuel and Nadya Crawford, her extended family and many, many friends.
A heartfelt thanks to Josh and his mother Ann Crawford. Because of their care Jody’s wishes to remain at home until the end were fulfilled.
A light from our lives has gone
A voice we loved is stilled
A place is vacant in our hearts
That never can be filled.
Addio mio angelo
H.W. Wallace Cremation and Burial Centre, 5285 Polkey Road, Duncan
Private family viewing on Sunday, October 18th from 11:00 am – 12 noon.
Public viewing from 12:00 – 3:00 PM
A Celebration of Life honoring Jody will be on November 1st at 1:00 P at 4388 Webdon Road, left off Old Lake Cowichan road, first left off Riverbottom road.
In memory of Jody and in lieu of flowers a donation may be sent to any Animal Support Group of your choice.
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From: Tom Varty family
Relation: Starter family friends
To all the Starter and Crawford families, our sincere condolences to everyone. Such a beautiful life and too short. Such a full life of loved ones, family, and all Jody’s animals.
We are all thinking of you at this time and always.
With Love, Tom Varty and family
From: Eileen Hillyard
Relation: I know her mother and mother in law
Dear Lynn, Ann, and families,
There are no words to adequately express how sad and sorry I am to hear of Jody’s passing. To lose such a beautiful daughter, daughter in law, sister, wife, mother, at such an early age, is hard to comprehend.
Please know that I’m think of you all at this incredibly difficult time. I will, indeed send a donation to the SPCA to honour her memory.
Fond regards…. Eileen Hillyard
From: Glenna Strang
Relation: family friend
Deep sympathy to you all for your loss. May your memories keep her close.. Glenna and Wayne
From: Winnifred Darwin
Relation: Neighbors of Parents
My sincere condolences Bob and Lynne. My thoughts and prayers are with both of you and your family at this time.
From: Gary and Pauline Jackson
Relation: Pauline used to work with Josh at Cedar Lodge, and also they were interested in the home company that we got our home from Harvest Home Ltd.
We/I would like to send our deepest sympathies to Josh and the boys, his parents and Jodys parents on the passing of their beloved Jody, wife,Mother, and daughter in law and daughter. Josh I was so overwhelmed with seeing that your beautiful wife Jody passed away.We cannot put into words.and so we silently give you a hug and your boys too at this time. I hope that you will have the comfort of friends and family to comfort each other in this time of loss. sincerely Pauline.
From: Robin Duke
Relation: Thru her mother
To the Starter and Crawford Families, I just wish to say how sad I was to read of Jody’s passing. I know that she will be in your hearts forever.
Robin Duke
From: Raj
Relation: Friend
Dear Starter family and Josh Crawford family. We wish to extend our sincere condolences. I met a very compassionate Instructor Josh Crawford and then shortly thereafter we met Jody.
It is with great sadness we take to the loss of Jody. We pray for Josh, the children and both families at this very difficult time. In prayer we ask that strength be provided for continuance of Jody’s legacy by way of the children. Our last memory of Jody was seeing her in Home Depot, with Josh on a farm related venture. We recall her strength and her pleasant smile, this will be the way we will always remember Jody. A cheerful soul that emanated peace and love at a level few understood. In life we meet many people and are given the honor of meeting TRUE kind, loving souls. Thank-you for blessing everyone with your caring spirit. May God Bless us all.
Raj & Brenda
Service Schedule
Funeral Service
Date & Time:
November 1, 2015
Beginning at 1:00pm
Location:
Crawford Residence
4388 Webdon Road
Duncan, BC Canada
4388 Webdon Road
Duncan, BC Canada
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